ABOUT US

New Canaan Cotillion is an organization that provides middle school-aged children the social skills essential to thrive in life.

Girls and boys in 6th through 8th grade are invited to join this exciting initiative that will build confidence, polish manners and teach basic ballroom dancing!

History of New Canaan Cotillion

In a world increasingly dominated by the rapid pace of social media and the fleeting nature of trends, a group of passionate individuals saw a crucial need for a return to timeless etiquette and grace.

Driven by a shared commitment to preserving traditional values, they founded the New Canaan Cotillion with a singular mission: to offer children a meaningful way to connect with the past and refine their manners in an ever-changing world.

As the cotillion embarks on its second season, it has become clear that this initiative has tapped into something profound. Recognizing the shift in societal focus towards instant gratification and digital interactions, the founders wanted to provide a space where young people could slow down and engage in the art of proper etiquette, dance, and social skills. The goal was not just to teach children how to navigate formal events, but to instill in them a sense of poise and confidence that transcends the virtual realm.

The inaugural season of New Canaan Cotillion was met with enthusiasm and positive feedback. Participants embraced the opportunity to step away from screens and immerse themselves in the graceful traditions of ballroom dancing and classic manners. The program was designed to be both educational and enjoyable, blending lessons in etiquette with the charm of dance.

The curriculum respects the traditions of the past while remaining relevant to today's youth. The lessons were not only about learning the steps of a waltz or the intricacies of table manners, but also about fostering respect, kindness, and self-assurance.

The program's success was a testament to the timeless value of its mission, proving that while the world may change rapidly, the need for grace and civility endures.

This initiative has not only enriched the lives of the children involved but has also fostered a sense of community and tradition in New Canaan. The commitment to bridging the gap between past and present through the New Canaan Cotillion has made a lasting impact, ensuring that the art of manners and dance will continue to be cherished by future generations.

As it moves into its second season, New Canaan Cotillion continues to grow and evolve.

Meet the Teachers

Robin Poska

Co-Lead Instructor

With over 30 years of experience in teaching and dance, Robin Laska has dedicated her career to helping young people develop the skills they need to shine. Alongside her husband Ed, she has cultivated a passion for ballroom dancing, sharing their expertise with students of all ages.

The Poska's have been instrumental in introducing the joy of dance to both group and individual learners, hosting dances and organizing special events for a variety of audiences—ranging from personal celebrations to corporate gatherings. They have offered programs in Ballroom Dance and Manners for children aged 5 to 12, fostering confidence and social grace in the next generation.

Robin's commitment to teaching extends beyond dance steps; she emphasizes the importance of etiquette and self-assurance, ensuring her students are prepared to put their best foot forward in any situation. With her warm approach and engaging style, Robin has made a lasting impact on the lives of countless children and their families.

Ed Poska

Co-Lead Instructor

Ed Laska, the beloved husband of Robin, is renowned for his ability to transform “cold feet into dancing feet”. With a warm heart and an infectious enthusiasm for dance, Ed has helped countless students overcome their reservations and find joy on the dance floor.

Together with Robin, he employs fun and innovative teaching techniques that make learning both accessible and enjoyable. Ed’s supportive approach encourages students to embrace their individuality, allowing them to shine in every step. His dedication to sharing the magic of ballroom dancing has made a lasting impact, inspiring many to leave the sidelines behind and confidently join the dance community. Whether teaching children or adults, Ed’s passion for dance and his nurturing spirit create an uplifting environment where everyone can thrive.

To Be Announced

Assistant

Robin and Ed have many amazing assistants that have been in the dancing world for many years.

What Parents Say

“In a world where it is increasingly harder for girls and boys to engage face to face, Cotillion was a great in-person experience for my 12-year old daughter. Not only did she work on introducing herself, engaging with adults, practicing the old art of writing thank you notes, she also had fun while learning the dance steps. I will definitely be signing her up again! It was very well run and the teachers kept it informative and fun.

— Whitney M.